Girls are dishonest

Dear Obaa Yaa,

I am 28 years old guy who has been posted as a trained teacher in one of the rural areas in the Central Region.

I didn’t move in with my family because of the nature of my wife’s job.

About two months ago, I befriended one of the students who run errands for me. One thing led to the other and mistakenly had my way with her.

After two weeks, the girl came to tell me that she was pregnant and that I should give her money to terminate the pregnancy because if her parents get to know of it, they would cause my arrest.

This got me disturbed because I might lose [u1] my job.

Upon a second thought, I discussed this with a friend and she told me it might be a plan to extort money from me.

 I personally texted her not to terminate the pregnancy but interestingly, I received a response that she has seen her monthly flow.

In fact, I became convinced about what my colleague told me. I want to end the relationship, what should I tell her and what should be my response when my wife hears of it.

Obaa Yaa, please I need an urgent advice.

David, Tema.

Dear David,

Your case is a very simple one. You are even lucky your friend who is much acquainted with the chicanery of the local girls fortunately hinted you and the girl has confirmed it all.

You better quit that relationship and avoid her because she thinks about following you home.

If you haven’t told her you are married, please tell her now.