Enough is enough

Dear Obaa Yaa,

I have been in a relationship with a young man for more than two years and things were initially going on well with us.

With time, our relationship started going bad and we seemed to disagree with each other on every little issue which should have ended normally without an objection from either of us.

Having observed things critically over the period, l have decided to break up the relationship with him to enable me to concentrate on my studies. I consider this decision very important this time.

Though it will be difficult to disclose my intention to him, l think enough is enough and l am eager to stick to my plans despite the consequences.

Now that l have decided to break up the relationship with him, new guys are also proposing to me.

Obaa Yaa, please l need your advice.

Delight,  Takoradi.

Dear Delight,

I am delighted to read that you have attached great importance to your studies and that has informed your decision to sever links with this gentleman. The objective of enrolling in the university is to achieve an aim, so pursue this goal to the end.

Compatibility is the catchphrase in every relationship, and since this is missing, it is appropriate to do what is essential by severing relations with this guy. Can you imagine how your parents will feel when they get wind of your relationship with this guy?

There is one thing making a decision and another ensuring that the decision is carried out.

Disregard the numerous calls from other young men and remain resolute in your decision to stop the relationship which has given you the signal that it has no future.