What my father in law said made me marry my wife after four years of dating – Edem

Ghanaian rapper Edem has shared how advice from his father in law influenced his decision to marry his wife after four years of dating and having a child together.

Speaking in an interview with Zionfelix, Edem explained that choosing a wife is one of the most important decisions a man can make because a life partner can either help build or destroy a person’s future.

According to him, the key quality he looked out for in his wife was her ability to nurture and raise a family.

He explained that a woman with strong motherly instincts is important because children often spend more time with their mother if a relationship faces challenges.

Edem noted that physical attraction matters, but intelligence and character are even more important.

He described his wife as his best friend and stressed the need for couples to constantly encourage each other.

The rapper revealed that they began dating in 2009 and got married in 2013, four years later.

He explained that the decision to marry was not rushed, even after they had their first child.

He recalled that his father in law advised them not to marry just because they had a child together.

Instead, he encouraged them to take time to understand each other and be sure they were truly compatible before settling down.

Edem believes this advice helped them build a stronger and more thoughtful marriage.

On the type of marriage couples should choose, Edem explained that whether it is customary or ordinance marriage, the most important thing is what both partners are comfortable with.

He stressed that marriage is about the two people involved and not public pressure.

He also touched on why his wife is often seen without her wedding ring.

According to him, she has an allergy to gold, which causes swelling and itching, making it difficult for her to wear rings and jewellery.

He emphasised that commitment matters more than wearing a ring.

Edem added that keeping marriage private helps it last, especially in the entertainment industry, which he described as a challenging and unstable space.

He stressed that longevity, commitment and the effort to grow together are the most important elements of a successful marriage.

By: Jacob Aggrey