She wants to come back

Dear Obaa Yaa

I am 28 and in my second year in a tertiary institution. Back in the second cycle institution, I fell in love with a young lady who I trusted so much. We did everything love-birds would do, exchange gifts, cards etc.

After completion, she has been showing strange signs indicating that she loves me no more. Any­time I call her on the telephone, she will say nothing but rather allow me to talk and talk and talk. She’ll say absolutely nothing.

As things were getting out of hand, I wrote to her but she never replied, so I decided to break up with her.

A few months later, I came into contact with this young lady, who for some time now has shown great interest in me. She visits me at home, even before she goes to school.

I have also developed some interest in her and now we do everything together.

But recently, my former girl­friend wrote to me and apologised for her behaviour.

She says she is sorry about everything; she even wants me to visit her in her house, something she kicked against previously.

Obaa Yaa, apparently, my for­mer girlfriend wants a comeback and I still love her, but I can’t afford to lose my new girlfriend.

Please advise me.

Jojo,

Pokuase

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Dear Jojo,

IT should be easy for you to choose between someone who is loyal to you and someone who isn’t. But ultimately, a decision on this will depend solely on you.

It would depend on how far you’ve gone with the new girl and whether or not you’ve promised her marriage.

As for the old girl, beware of her. Kojo don’t buy the idea of someone going elsewhere for rea­sons known to her alone and come back to beg. You should be more concerned about her coming back into your life after disappearing.

If Obaa Yaa is to advise you on who to choose between the two, it will certainly be the new girl­friend.