Obaa Yaa
She never ask for sex
Dear Obaa Yaa
I AM 43 and she is 40. We live at Nyamekye near Mambo spot in Accra.
My wife is a very nice person and she attends to all my needs, especially in bed. But she has never initiated our sex acts.
Each time I have to be the one who would make the first move.
I would be happy if she gives me the green light, but should I convey such a delicate message to her?
Francis,
Nyamekye.
Dear Francis,
In my opinion, this is not a delicate matter. Tell your wife that you need a positive change in your love life, and I think this is a fair request.
She might find it difficult to initiate sex in the beginning but when you encourage her. She would learn.
It would then come naturally to her every time, and mind you, do not reject her when she ask for it too often.
All the best.