No Lady loves me

 Dear Obaa Yaa,

I am 30 years of age, unemployed and struggling to make a living. I am so hairy that I started shaving at age 20.

The excessive shaving has made my cheeks rough. I look much older than my age.

At age 30, I feel I should have a wife or be involved in a serious rela­tionship leading to marriage but I have no one.

Currently, I am depressed because I am still looking for a job.

However, my choice of a woman who actually satisfies my set standard or whom I wish to have does not love me.

I have tried several other ladies but it all backfired although I am sober and live a modest life.

Could it be that I am jobless or due to my rough cheeks. Can something be done about it?

Troubled man, Kumasi.

Dear Troubled man,

I would want to believe it has more to do with your being unemployed.

If you propose marriage to a woman while you are unemployed, she would not take you serious.

Marriage thrives more on other factors than love, especially when children are born in the marriage, you need money to take care of them.

I will also suggest you see a skin specialist about your rough cheeks and do not jump into conclusion about your looks.