My wife receives too many calls

 Obaa Yaa,

I am very disturbed by the attitude of my wife. Recently, she has been receiving too many calls on her mobile phone. That is not so much of a problem to me.

What worries me is that she giggles as she talks and even though I eavesdrop, yet I cannot hear anything she says.

I have funny feelings she has been talking to a new man, but anytime I confront her about it, she denies it. I want her to stop it.

I cannot stand those conversations because the calls come at odd hours sometimes.

Obaa Yaa, please guide me on what I should do to stop her.

Worried man,

Accra.

Dear Worried man,

FROM the tone of your letter, it appears you have not discussed the issue with your wife.

Let her know in no uncertain terms that you are not pleased with people calling her at odd hours. It would, therefore, be better if she puts off her phone during those odd hours.

Tell her you are getting suspicious about those numerous calls, and that the situation is disturbing your relationship with her. You will therefore be pleased if she takes steps to limit those calls.

If she refuses, then she is being disloyal to you and also disre­spectful. You may then report to her parents or yours and tell them what you think about her conduct.

I hope it does not get to that extent, though.