My wife is building secretly

Dear Obaa Yaa,

We have been married for the past 15 years. Although our marital journey has not been easy, I love my wife.

At a point in our marriage, I betrayed my wife by impreg­nating a co-worker. I asked for forgiveness from my wife and she accepted by apology.

Recently, I discovered that my wife had built two houses and rented them without my knowledge.

The most painful thing is that she has willed these houses to the children which I found in our wardrobe.

When I confronted her she claimed that the reason for her behaviour was because she had lost trust in me after I impregnated a co-worker.

I am confused. What should I do to win her trust?

Jacob, Osu.

Dear Jacob,

This is an interesting letter which will serve as a useful lesson for couples.

Marriage basically thrives on love, trust and a great deal of tolerance. Couples must always ensure that these fundamentals are safeguarded in order to keep the marriage safe.

Unfortunately, you have grossly abused the trust of your wife and have called for this negative response from her. Judging by her behaviour, this is the best way for her to retaliate.

Though it is unfortunate that she has built houses without your knowledge, you should know that you have called for the tune and must, therefore, be prepared to dance according to it.

Secondly, you must be grateful that she has willed the houses to your children.