My husband is seeing another lady

 Dear Obaa Yaa,

I dated my husband for two years and got married few months ago because I was pregnant and didn’t want to give birth out of wedlock.

At the time I realised I was preg­nant, another lady was also pregnant for him but the lady insisted on termi­nating the pregnancy and because he needed a child, he asked me to keep it and pleaded that he will not cheat on me again.

Now I have a baby girl and the issue is that he hides basically every­thing about him from me including his phone.

We are basically living like room­mates but he provides food for the home. I am still in school so I want to go for family planning till I complete school and get something to do for myself because I don’t want to fully depend on him again.

Please I need an advice whether to go for the family planning or not and should I inform my husband?

Kakyire, Tarkwa.

Dear Kaakyire,

I understand what you are going through and feel your pain. I am pleading with you to be patient when handling issues like this.

Kindly have a discussion with your husband and voice out your frustra­tions and everything you are going through to him.

Make amends and apologise to each other. Begin this year on a fresh note.

I would advise you to go for the family planning methods in order to complete school without another pregnancy.

Finally, continue to pray and com­mit your marriage into the hands of God.