My husband doesn’t shop for us on Christmas

Dear Obaa Yaa,
My husband barely provides for the family, especially around the festive season. Although he seems to be doing his best, it is not enough. This has happened for the third time.

Whenever we enter a festive occasion, he always gives excuses instead of taking the kids out or spending time with them. His actions might affect our marriage. What do I do?

— Stellar Donkor, Odorgonor

Dear Stellar,
There may be reasons behind his inability to meet your expectations. He could be facing financial difficulties or personal challenges.

Even though this has happened repeatedly, it’s important to approach him with understanding and find out the underlying issues. Instead of adding pressure, encourage him to keep working hard and discuss ways he can better support you and the children.

Even if he doesn’t manage anything for you this Christmas, there may be other opportunities for him to show his care. Focus on nurturing communication, and finding ways to meet each other’s emotional needs.

Lastly, if open discussions don’t lead to improvement, consider seeking guidance and support from trusted friends or family.