Is family planning for only women?

Dear Obaa Yaa,

I have a question for you, and it is bothering me. Who made the law that family planning should be only for women when a couple decides not to have children again?

From my research, I have realised that women go through so many complications when trying to do family planning. My auntie died from tubal ligation, and that is a sickness related to family planning.

On the other hand, some men will always blame women for unwanted pregnancies, forgetting that they also have a role to play when it comes to family planning.

Why should it always be women endangering their lives? Some women bloat, others bleed non-stop because of family planning.

My question now is this: can men also go in for vasectomy?

Ayele, Osu.

Dear Ayele,

Your question is very interesting and can generate an unending debate.

Family planning should not be a woman’s burden alone. It is unfair to put all the responsibility and risk on women when both partners are equally involved in decision-making.

In my opinion, both couples should have access to information, resources, and healthcare to make informed decisions about their reproductive health.

The fact that your auntie died from a tubal ligation is heartbreaking, and it is a stark reminder of the risks women take.

Vasectomy is a simple, safe, and effective option for men. It is time for men to step up and take responsibility in family planning.

Not only can it prevent unwanted pregnancies, but it also shows respect for a partner’s health and well-being.

Couples should have open and honest discussions about family planning and be ready to share responsibility.

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