I don’t want to lose my boyfriend

Dear Obaa Yaa,

I am lady of 20 years in a relationship with a 23 year-old guy. .

We love each other and are in a serious relationship that will probably lead to marriage.

 I am afraid my family may not allow us to tie the knot when we are ready because gone were the days, the boy was known to be a notorious.

 Even though I have seen a complete change in his life, I am still afraid.

When I told him about my fears, he told me that the name Saul was changed to Paul and for that matter I don’t have to be afraid.

I don’t want to loose him, kindly advice me on what to do.

Esinam, Keta.

Dear Esinam,

No parent would want her daughter to get married to a notorious person. If your boy has once been notorious and he says he has turned a new leaf, just give him some time to prove himself if it was just by words or actions.

For the time being, why not introduce him to your parents as your friend. That way you could be able to gather impressions your parents have about him.

It would also give you a definite opportunity to know if they would accept him in future if he has indeed changed.

Meanwhile do not get too involved because you might later be disappointed.

Do not also forget that he might be pretending to have changed just to win your love.