He introduced me wrongly  

Dear Obaa Yaa,

I visited my boyfriend in his office only to meet him and a young lady having a serious chat.

He politely introduced the lady to me as his colleague at work and also introduced me as a friend without telling the lady that I am his lover.

When he came home and I went over to spend the night, he found nothing wrong with what he did when the matter came up for discussion.

I then told him I was not happy with him for not appropriately giving me acknowledgment as his lover.

I think he is hiding something from me. What do you also think, Obaa Yaa?

Araba, Mamobi

Dear Araba,

For very good reasons, certain individuals would not want to publicise their love affair. They believe love is a private matter and not for public consumption, and would like to run their affairs in secret.

Others also think once they are not married and haven’t met the right person, there is no need introducing anybody around until they get properly committed and envision a life-time relationship.

So you cannot judge the motive of your boyfriend for not introducing you appropriately, although I also feel that he could have something to do with the other lady.

However, don’t get worked up. Keep calm and soon you will know the truth.